Is your Relationship Based on Loneliness or Love?
Based on the work of Dr. Mark Travers, Ph.D.
There is a significant distinction between actively seeking a romantic partner and remaining in, or trying to force a relationship to happen, out of loneliness. Occasionally, in our eagerness to find someone, we overlook this difference, leading us to reflect on past relationships and question why we did not notice the warning signs or ended up with someone who was clearly not a good match for us.
Is your relationship merely based on loneliness? For each of the following questions, indicate how well it applies to you below.
Question 1 of 18
My partner loves me for who I truly am.
The IDRlabs 6-Minute Relationship Test (IDR-6MRT) was developed by IDRlabs. The IDR-6MRT is based on the work of Dr. Mark Travers who wrote the article: “3 Signs That a Relationship is Based on Loneliness, Not Love”. The IDR-6MRT is not associated with any specific researchers or authors in the field of social psychology, personality psychology, or any affiliated research institutions.
The IDRlabs 3 Minute Relationship Test was informed by the article, “3 Signs That a Relationship is Based on Loneliness, Not Love”, as published in Travers, M. (2023) 3 Signs that a relationship is based on loneliness, not love. Psychology Today.
The work of Dr. Travers has also informed some of the diagnostic criteria in the form of the aforementioned article reviewed by Davia Sills. The present test is intended for educational purposes only. IDRlabs and the present IDRlabs 6 Minute Relationship Test are independent from the above researchers, organizations, or their affiliated institutions.
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