Crush Test

The first 17 questions are statements about the two of you, answered on a scale from No to Yes: whether they take an interest when you share news from your day, whether conversation comes easily, whether they ever reach out first. The last eight describe everyday scenes, such as how your texts usually go, what happens when you post about a bad day and how much they bring you into their circle of friends. Answer for what has actually happened between you, not for what you hope will happen.

Each answer earns points, and the points add up to a score from 0 to 100. Signs of interest from both sides score higher: they reach out too, they remember what you tell them, you can be silly around each other and disagreements get talked through. Signs that the effort runs one way score lower: lying awake worrying that they don't like you, questions about where you stand brushed aside, gifts that never come back the other way.

Why these questions? Liking someone usually shows in small, repeated choices rather than grand gestures. People who are interested tend to start conversations, ask follow-up questions and remember the details. They make room in a busy week, and they let you see parts of their life that others don't, such as their family, their past or their friends. When interest runs one way, the pattern looks different: one person does most of the reaching out, personal topics get closed off, and questions about the relationship are laughed away.

There are five results. Out of Sync (0 to 20) means your answers describe a gap in interest, effort or expectations. Mixed Signals (21 to 40) means some moments feel encouraging and others leave you unsure. Growing Closer (41 to 60) means you are getting comfortable with each other, though the feelings may not have been said out loud. Great Match (61 to 80) means you seem to understand each other and have something to build on. Strong Chemistry (81 to 100) means your answers describe ease, trust and attention on both sides.

A quiz can only work with what you tell it. People show interest in different ways: a shy person may like you a lot and still rarely text first, and a friendly person may be warm with everyone. A high score is encouraging, but it doesn't confirm romantic feelings, and a low score doesn't rule them out. If you want to know where you stand, the surest way is to ask, or to suggest a plan that is clearly a date.

What to do with your result? If you scored in the top two bands, the next step is usually to make your interest a little clearer, for example by suggesting a plan for just the two of you. In the middle, give it time and notice whether they meet you halfway. In the lower bands, it may help to step back for a while and see whether they come toward you. Whatever you scored, your feelings are worth taking seriously, and a kind, direct question will tell you more than any quiz.

Your chart shows your score on a dial, with the five results around it. Your result can change as you get to know each other, so it may be worth taking the test again in a few weeks.

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