"What's Your Male Vibe?" Test

Dating and relationships are complex, and the way individuals navigate them can vary dramatically. Some people seem effortlessly charming, while others struggle to connect. Our personality test aims to decode where you fall on this romantic spectrum—not by boxing you in, but by exploring patterns in your behavior, beliefs, and experiences.

Using a two-axis system, this test examines two key dimensions: your success with women and your attitude toward women. These two factors intersect to form four unique personas—each with its own traits, strengths, and challenges. Whether you're seen as a heartthrob or feel like you're constantly being overlooked, this quadrant framework provides a humorous yet insightful way to reflect on your approach to relationships.

The first axis gauges your romantic success, looking at how often you're pursued, how confident you feel in dating situations, and how frequently your romantic efforts succeed. High scores indicate ease and comfort in romantic or flirtatious settings, while low scores may suggest difficulty attracting attention or forming romantic bonds.

The second axis evaluates your attitude toward women, measuring respect, empathy, and trust versus bitterness, skepticism, or objectification. A high score reflects admiration and genuine care, while a low score may signal distrust or negative generalizations.

When these axes intersect, they reveal four personas:

The Ladies Man is confident and charismatic, but also emotionally intelligent and respectful. He doesn’t just "get women"—he understands and values them.

The Player, on the other hand, is similarly successful but often sees relationships as strategic or transactional. He's smooth, but rarely emotionally available.

The Simp loves women deeply and often unconditionally but struggles with romantic success, sometimes overextending himself for little return.

The Incel represents someone who is not only unsuccessful romantically but also harbors resentment or negative beliefs about women, often from repeated rejection or societal frustration.

None of these labels are permanent—they simply reflect a snapshot of your current tendencies. The point of this test isn’t to shame or stereotype, but to spark self-awareness, offer some laughs, and maybe even inspire personal growth.

As with all personality frameworks, this is a playful interpretation, not a scientific diagnosis. Your place on the quadrant can change as you grow, reflect, and experience new things. Think of this as a mirror—not a rulebook.

So, grab a coffee, answer honestly, and see where you land. Whether you’re a smooth-talking flirt, a devoted romantic, a love-struck underdog, or a disillusioned skeptic, this test offers a fun and revealing look at how you move through the dating world—and how you might want to evolve.